INTERESTED IN DATING A MALAYSIAN WOMAN? READ THIS.
Truth Revealed about Dating Malaysian Women
I know you think that Malaysian women are special, right? Yes, I also do. First of all, Malaysian women are mixed with Chinese, Indians and the real Malay women. Before you think of dating a Malaysian woman, it’s important to note that being a Muslim country, ladies are conservative and as such dating has to lead to marriage.
You must meet her parents and make your intentions clear. No hit and run. If you are thinking you will meet in the club and take her for a one night stand, you might have to think twice. Also, these women are different, whereas Indians here and Malays prefer to date women from the same ethnic group, Chinese are open-minded and do not mind mingling with other tribes.
Typical Malaysian women
Malaysian women are known for their beauty, sincerity, loyalty, and humbleness. They are smart, intelligent and put in every effort to make the relationship work. They respect their partners and believe in true love rather than one night flings and friends with benefits categories of relationship.
So if you are looking to reward yourself with some due respect and reap fruits of a sweet and cute relationship where there is nothing apart from love, care, and genuine concern then Malaysian girls are for you. Also, it is a myth out there that Malaysian women don’t like men other than their own race or religion but it is not completely true as Malaysian women are really attracted towards Americans and they make up a great pair.
Malaysian women are very innocent and clean at heart and they believe in being vocal about everything. You will notice them talk about everything including your good and bad points in a very open manner and thus you can feel being ‘yourself’ with them. You don’t need to customize (apart from the fact that you have to behave decently) your behavior as they believe in showing off your true self when you are out with them.
What Malaysian girls mostly like?
See, Malaysian ladies are no exception from others except for a few things. One thing they love for sure is food. And not to blame them, this comes from the fact that their land is fertile and gifted with food. So you had better be a good cook before you think of dating a Malaysian woman. Or at least afford a decent meal at a decent restaurant. Some ladies would rather go for someone who has it all, I mean the rich kind of guy. They like to be spoiled and treated like queens.
What exactly do Malaysian girls expect from a man?
If you are lucky enough to land on a good Malay woman, believe me, her expectations are not anything complicated, depends on what you call complicated anyway. For starters, we all know that it is next to impossible to marry a Malay Muslim lady when you are not. You might have to consider converting to Islam as well.
Just like every other lady, they expect loyalty from their men, security, trustworthiness, respect, and also taking responsibility. Nothing unusual really. Also, public display of affection is frowned upon so don’t go about kissing and pecking her in public. She might feel uncomfortable. Be sure to meet her parents too if you are looking at a long term relationship
How long it takes to get a Malaysian girl trust in you?
For a Malay lady to trust you it takes time, effort and seriousness. She will want to first ascertain that you are not the hit and run kind of guy. Also, her parents say will determine a lot if she trusts you or just dumps. All you have to do is be yourself (at least I am thinking you are a good person) and treat her right and you will have her for keeps.
Is it easy to find a Malaysian girl as a foreigner?
Yes, it is quite easy to find a lady here if you are a foreigner and in fact, most Malay ladies prefer foreigners to their own tribesmen. This is good news for foreigners who are considering dating Malaysian women, right?
What Malaysian girls think about foreigner?
Most Malay ladies would rather date a foreigner. There is this notion that foreigners are more romantic than Malaysian men. Ladies here also think that it is only a foreigner especially whites who can give that emotional satisfaction and financial stability. Remember most of these ladies want fancy dinners, exotic holidays and a lavish lifestyle.
How to Find Serious Malaysian Girls
Interested in dating a Malaysian girl? Not to worry, just like any other country, there are many places you can find them including dating sites. Yes, forget the notion that dating sites are flooded with hookers, in Malaysia chances are high that you might land on a lady seeking a long term relationship.
Also being a Muslim country, you might not be too lucky in pubs, places like restaurants, coffee shops, cinemas are also other places to check. Socialize, go for fun activities like trekking, meet new people, and join clubs, all these present opportunities to meet a serious Malay. Speaking a few words in her mother tongue might be a plus for you, so why not put in an extra effort and learn a few words.
How to meet a Malaysian girl for fun?
It is ridiculously easy to find single women here. Girls who want to be lucky for the night are also available in Malaysia. Plenty of them for that matter and the best places to check out nightclubs.
Here you will find all sorts of women dressed to the nines. It would be very polite however to make your intentions from the word go so that you both know what you signing up for. Dating site would be the other option but I must warn you not to succumb to cons, be careful when someone asks you for money. You can also be lucky by simply waiting at the ladies. A simple hi can really go a long way. Try out blind dates too. Who knows? After all, there is nothing wrong in trying.
Do you need to hang out nightclubs to find a Malaysian woman?
You do not really need to hang out in clubs to find a Malay. They are all over. Malls, shopping centers, streets, schools, pretty much everywhere you go, you can’t miss one. Just be polite and ask her out, you will be shocked at how friendly and down to earth, they are.
Now, there you are folks. My experience with Malay women. If you feel you want to date a Malaysian woman, please go for it. Apart from a few hiccups, they are perfect for keeps.
How to find a Malaysian girl for marriage
Are you interested in marrying a Malaysian woman? Not to worry as there are plenty. However, there is no reliable assessment which can predict whether a lady is good and fit for marriage or not. It is quite hard to predict human heart. It is hard to tell at first sight if a Malay lady is suitable for marriage, just like other ladies anyway.
It takes time and patience. How about trying out a few tricks, say if she insists you pay everything on the first date, that is a no. Some of these ladies tend to be money hungry, so watch out. Most Malaysian girls are known for their sincerity and transparency.
There is no particular place where you will find ’marriage material’ like the common saying nowadays. My advice thou is to make your intentions clear to the lady you meet and discern for yourself if she is fit for marriage or not and most importantly, remember to check in the right places.
Marry a Malaysian woman as a foreigner?
If you are planning to date a Malaysian woman, it is very important to check and iron out potential issues considering the fact that there are some laws that govern marriage here. Also, if you wish to marry in Malaysia it is possible but make sure you obtain a certificate from your embassy that clears you to marry. Before you marry a Malay woman, ask yourself, will her family accept you? Will her father accept you as well? If all that is OK, then I think you will be fine to marry.
Malaysian women culture
Being a Muslim country, they still hold a conservative idea of gender roles. Here women are dependents and men breadwinners. Female genital mutilation is a common practice here and it is believed that more than 90% have undergone this practice.
Parents are fully involved in a woman’s relationship and they expect their daughters to introduce their husbands to be as soon as the relationship starts. Funny but true, the moment you start seeing a Malay lady, consider yourself dating. It is that fast. Weird, right? I know.
Cons and pros of Malaysian women
One thing for sureis the fact that Malaysians are very laid back people, extremely friendly, generous, and kind. Now, who wouldn’t want that in a companion? To me, that is a plus when it comes to dating ladies from this side of town. For the few months, I lived there, I felt at home. I must confess there are times when I felt like leaving but reasons to leave were always outweighed by the long list in the plus column.
On the flip side, some Malaysian ladies are needy. They like being pampered and spoiled. They live in a fantasy world. They would rather have a man who will provide for them and give them the life they only watch in movies other than work for themselves.
Do I recommend dating Malaysian woman?
Personally, I would recommenddating Malaysian women. See, these are the kind (biggest percentage) who know what they want and will go for it. Very few ladies will pass for flings. They want relationships that lead somewhere, to marriage, my thinking, these are women worth keeping. If you are looking for a woman who will respect you, be honest, transparent, and hardworking, go for a Malaysian woman.