Russian women beauty is famous worldwide. They are well known for their attractive looks, blonde hair and blue eyes. Many men from different countries would like to know what it feels like to have a Russian Date. So, let’s find out all the truth about Dating Russian Women.
Dating in Russia
The culture of dating in this beautiful Slavic country is not so different from the rest of the world. You meet a girl that you find attractive, ask her out, hang out with her, and you two spend time together. However, keep in mind that the Russian culture has quite strong gender roles.
According to the Russian Dating Rules, it has to be always the man who takes the initiative: he decides where to have dinner, thinks of how to surprise his date, takes care of the bill, and gives her flowers or small gifts in order to show how much he is interested in her. Therefore, you should remember that in Russia dating is traditional and romantic.
What are the Russian girls like?
If you expect to be surrounded by blonde-haired women – I will have to disappoint you, because it is nothing but a stereotype. The most common hair color is brown, but the girls usually do have bright eyes and pale skin. Russian women are mostly taller than southern or Asian girls.
How to meet a Russian girl in Russia?
The best way to meet people is to hang out with locals in different events. For example, open air concerts. No wonder why almost all the foreigners I knew during The World Cup in Russia met several Russian women on FIFA Fan Fest: A lot of fun, crowd, positive energy, and music. Everyone is up to meet new people and hang out.
- A Russian Ethnic Dating Website (Best way to find Russian girls who can speak very good English)
- Start a small talk with a girl on the street or in a café (e.g. ask for directions)
Do NOT say things like “Hello, beautiful” on the streets out of nowhere. Generally, girls find that annoying and disrespectful.
How to meet a Russian girl abroad?
Russians do travel and immigrate to different countries. You can find many Russian immigrants in USA, Germany, China, and Spain. Their favorite travel destinations are Turkey, Thailand, Spain, Italy, and China. It is hard to find them in South American countries, some Asian countries like Japan.
They do not like to travel to Northern part of Europe much because it is kind of pricey and cold. It is very common for Russian girls to work abroad as models, since their beauty is appreciated all over the world. Here are some tips:
- Every major city has a Russian community. In addition, there are organizations of Russian language and culture. If you are interested, find one in your city. You can participate in its events or take some classes, that way you will meet people from Russia and you can get closer to the Its community in your city.
- Look for a native Russian tutor
- Or become a premium member of the one of the biggest dating platforms that established only for Russian and Slavic countries. HERE YOU GO!
Can a foreign man have a chance with a Russian women?
Luckily, the girls from Mother Russia are actually interested in foreign men. Why? The answer is very easy – Russian men do not appreciate their women as men from other countries do.
Due to different wars that Russia and Soviet Union have been through the last century, nowadays, according to the statistics, there are 85 men for 100 women. In addition, about 30% of the men are unemployed or alcoholics.
Nevertheless, here is the thing, mothers had been teaching their daughters from very young age to look the best they can and to do everything they can to satisfy a man. There was (actually, there still is) a big competition to get a man’s attention. That led to the following problem: men got used to that dolce vita. Once you are in Russia, you can see that the men do not take care of their looks, and their attitude towards their wives and girlfriends can be very disrespectful.
As an example, what my grandmother told me once: “Are you good at haircutting? No? What if your future husband asks you to cut his hair better than a hairdresser? What are you going to do? You should learn how to do it! “ Fortunately, the situation is improving in the XXl century.
What is your personal purpose of meeting a Russian girl?
If you are looking for serious relationship – you are on the right track! A lot of them look forward to have a serious relationship and even to get married. By the way, never ever mention to any girls there that you are into Russian girls or you are looking for a girl in Russia for any kind of relationships – they will find it offensive.
If you have met the right one already, try to do your best to assure her that she means a lot to you: visit her in her country, invite her to yours, introduce her to your family and friends, and support her in difficult situations. Keep in mind: In this country, actions speak louder than words.
If all you need is a One-Night-Stand, you will not have any problems with that either! Use the old school way: go to parties, clubs, and concerts. Everywhere you go try to look as touristy as possible; girls would love to have an experience with someone from another country.
Like every nation in the world, people from Russia have their strong and weak parts. Let’s take a closer look.
What will you love about Russian Women?
- They are direct
Russian women will tell you exactly what they want from you or what they want to give you. Yes, without any hints. They do not hide things nor dissimulate. If you hear a compliment from her, be sure that she means it. If she tells you, “I love you” – she actually loves you. Yes, that easy!
- They are housewives
As it was mentioned before, Russian girls were taught from young age to do housework and cooking. They put a lot of effort to keep the house clean, cozy and to make tasty dinner for herself, her partner and her family. You will never be hungry with her!
- They are charming conversationalists
In Russia, small talks are not approved. Girls like to talk about serious and global topics, like philosophy, literature, art, psychology, and languages. Remember: they expect from you the same. You will always have something to talk about!
- They are beautiful
Without any doubts! Most of them have a “baby face” and blue or green eyes. Moreover, they take care of their appearance: they put a lot of efforts to have a good complexion, they do beauty treatments, do manicure and pedicure, they are into fashion. They like to attract opposite sex’s attention with nice outfits and high heels. Girls put make up just to go grocery shopping (even if the store is right around the corner).
However, no one is perfect
- Breaking the ice
If you are from South America or South part of Europe, you might find Russian women a bit cold and reserved at first. They do not like to get too personal and they may even avoid touching you. In addition, Russian people barely smile, but do not think that it is because they are angry – it is just a part of Russian culture. After getting to know the girl better, you will be surprised how friendly and open minded she is.
- Language barrier
Russians speak poor English. The situation is better in big cities, especially in Saint Petersburg, because it is close to Europe. However, in general, English is not taught properly at school. (Take my advice to avoid such problems. Find them online in their platform that I gave the link above or below)
- “Who pays the bill?”
There is another thing that may surprise especially men from North America and North part of Europe. Russian girls expect the man to be gallant in offering to pay for most things. In short, the man has to pay for dates and give his date or girlfriend gifts (flowers, chocolate, and perfume). Wait, do not get scared yet!
The main reason why men usually take all the bills is that the woman has to believe that her date is “financially secure”. Even wealthy women let men take care of the bill. If you are not comfortable with that – the best way is to talk about that with her.
Another reason is a bit sad. If you are a foreigner dating a Russian, probably you make a lot more money than she does (consider that is she an average person with monthly salary 400 USD. A dinner in a nice place would cost her 1/8 of her salary). Sometimes she just cannot afford things. If you would not like to pay for her, choose places to eat and to drink wisely so you do not offend her.
Finally, there is the worst type of Russian women, the ones who are after your money and your wallet. There are naive men who can get caught. All she wants from you is to take her to fancy restaurants, and to buy her expensive gifts. Sometimes the girls cooperate with some bars and restaurants, take the foreigners there, order the most expensive drinks and makes the man pay for all that.
“Once I met a girl on a party, on the next day I asked her out to a restaurant. She showed up with her 4 of her friends, they ordered a lot of food and drinks. When we finished, they all expected me to pay for everyone. I said, “No, I am going to pay for myself and for the girl that I have invited. She got angry, blocked me on WhatsApp and called me “a very bad person””
“I was looking for a cheap hotel to spend a night with a woman that I had met. I wanted to find a place where you can just pay for one hour. I asked Natasha If she knows one, and she said yes. We ordered a taxi, she told the driver the address. When we arrived, we ended up in one of the fanciest hostels in Saint Petersburg “Belmond Grand Hotel Europe”. 250 EUR per night. That was the most expensive night of my life”
So, be careful with these kind of girls.
To sum up, I would like to say that it is very hard to describe the whole nation, but I tried my best. Keep in mind, that each person is unique, so you cannot generalize. The most important thing is to match with the person you are dating without looking at her nationality. In my experience, I have met a lot of international couples that live happily, and I have met a lot of guys that loved hanging out and spending time with Russian girls. Just use your knowledge and intuition to find the right one.
Feel free to ask any question as I am (Caterina) the one who can help you out as a Russian Lady and Dating Coach. If you ready to meet one of them, HERE IS THE RUSSIAN SPECIFIC DATING PLATFORM. Keep in your mind that you need to upgrade Premium Account to access full features to meet Beautiful Russian Girls. Good Luck!